Heritage Makers, Wedding

Photo Guestbook

Currently at JFK airport and have been up for way too many hours as I return yet again from another (2 day) Switzerland trip. This is the last trip before W-day. The nice part about this return-home trip has been the upgrade to business elite (1st time ever, thanks Delta) and now the relaxing in the Sky Team Lounge. It’s quiet, cool, and has free food and drinks. I could travel more often if every trip was this luxurious, but I digress…

Last night in my hotel room, I finally finished our wedding day guestbook. I wanted to make it personal, cute and memorable, so of course I used Heritage Makers and I used an existing guestbook template to create ours which made it super easy and quick. Click the photo below to view the entire super-cute guestbook.

 

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I also just bought a few of these Zip Photo Signature Pens from Scrapbook.com. The reviews looked promising so hopefully they work for people signing the pages of our guestbook.

Thanks to my mom for all of the “engagement” photos in our guestbook. One thing I was starting to regret was not having engagement photos, so last weekend we headed to my parent’s house with 2 different outfits each and for about an hour my mom took some really awesome, great photos. The best part – they were FREE!! Thanks mom!!!

Time to brush my teeth before my next flight!! (20+ hours of flying makes me feel pretty disgusting….).

– Mary

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Entertainment

Stucco Jones: The Jimmy Crum EP

I’m listening to the new Stucco Jones cd The Jimmy Crum EP as I write this post. It’s a good CD with my favorite songs being Baby Tastes Like Whiskey and Fancy Pants (there was some original speculation that this song might have been written about a certain cat, but the lyrics do not suggest this). Stucco Jones is active in the Columbus music scene and seeing them live is very entertaining (even more entertaining if there are fewer chairs). When I invited friends to ComFest to see them play, a few had already seen Stucco Jones* live at a local bar and commented that they were really good, fun and high-energy and I completely agree with that statement.

Earlier this evening I was looking at some of the playlists I’ve made over the years in iTunes. I typically name my playlists by the month and year that I created them so it’s cool to look at September 2007 and see songs such as Snow (Hey Oh) by the Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Stronger by Kanye West, 1234 by Feist, and Forever by Ben Harper and remembering listening to those songs as I drove around LA in my HHR rental car to visit friends on vacation. It is my most memorable solo trip and it’s almost cliche to call it life-changing, but it pretty much was.

I recently re-read a book that I first read when I was 23. The book, The Go-Girl Guide to Surviving Your Life in Your 20s, suggested having a soundtrack for events during your 20s so you can look back and remember. I found the book when I was moving a few weeks ago and rather than give it away I wanted to re-read it from the perspective of a 29-year old and see if I perceived the book any different. Funny enough, I took a lot of the advice and used it without realizing it. I have traveled all over the world (Singapore, India, France, Spain, Ireland, England, Germany, Switzerland, and countless cities in the US), I have survived break-ups, seen friendships come and go, worked through the first 5+ years of my career and am no longer at the bottom of the work totem poll, and created playlists or soundtracks to go with all of my life events (and the book was published before iTunes even existed). I highly recommend the book, even if some of the information is a little dated (what? no mention of text messaging and all of the subtle complexities around sending and receiving?). 

Besides the month and year plays, others reveal more about my personality. There is the narcistic side of me (Songs about Mary: all have the word ‘Mary’ in the lyrics), the travel part of my life (Sleep: it’s the playlist for falling asleep on planes as all songs are instrumental so I’m not singing the lyrics in my head), and the wide range of music I enjoy (Dec 2008 Country is quite different from the Dec 2008 Workout playlist that contains mostly Rap). Learning someone’s iTunes playlist methodology could be quite revealing on a first date or it’d be a unique question for speed dating to make it more interesting than the typical “where did you go to school?” “grow-up?” “work?” etc. Not that Nick has ever had any iTunes playlists (or an iPod). In the last hour, he’s lugged his entire cd collection up from the basement and is organizing them (is the right cd in the right case? what does that reveal?? That he’s perfect for an organizational nut like me?? I think yes). He’s enjoying rediscovering old CDs and playing sample songs for me. We’ve switched from Stucco Jones and are now onto Radiohead, the Bends – a band and CD we both love.

Now here’s hoping the songs we’ve picked out for our wedding still resonate with us for many, many years to come.

– Mary

Full disclosure: I’ve known both band members of Stucco Jones since they were about 6 years old and one of them happens to be my younger brother.

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Heritage Makers

The toughest part of planning

The toughest part of planning a wedding, a one day event, is not getting to think and discuss and plan a marriage. There have been some highlights the past few months with more focus on the marriage than the 1-day wedding, but I would have liked many, many more of them! The Pre-Cana day was pretty awesome, in that we got to spend an entire day focused on each other and us talking about everything from communication to kids to the families we came from. Moving in together has been pretty fantastic too as it has helped to iron out little stuff like finances (ha, little!), living styles, chores, etc. before the wedding. I was asked by two different people in the last week how it felt to live with Nick and my answer was and still is, the best.  

Tonight, I read a post from A Practical Wedding. The blogger is getting married shortly after I am, and I think she says it very well on what I want to be focused on for the next 27 days. It’s hard not to fall into this trap, and worry that our wedding isn’t enough, doesn’t have enough, isn’t “us” enough and especially after yesterday’s visit to St. Charles!! But in the end, we’ll be married (yay!!!!) while surrounded by our families and friends and that’s perfect to me.

– Mary

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Wedding

4 Weeks and Counting

Less than 30 days to go!  Today we visited St. Charles and took a sneak peak at someone else’s wedding setup. Our caterer Berwick (who’s the BEST), let us in early to check it out. It was good to see and have a real image in my head of what it looks like for a wedding reception. Up until now it just looked like a really big room with incredibly high ceilings. Of course in viewing someone else’s wedding I immediately saw about 10 things I hadn’t even considered yet. Mints for the bar? Framed photos of parents and grandparent’s weddings? Sparkly table cloths to add color to the white ones? Pretty decorations to wrap around the banisters down the stairs? A list of drinks for the bar? I already nixed the cocktain napkins – phew.

I also noticed the gold chairs they have at St. Charles. They stood out a ton. They aren’t necessarily ugly, they just don’t quite go with the color scheme (today’s wedding was white and light blue). The caterer quoted $3.75 / chair to cover them from a woman he knows, but my mom is going to search for cheaper, because $1125 to cover them up is ridiculous, insane and illogical. (Now ask me later if covering them up is worth $600? $300?).

Last night, we stayed in Dayton with Nick’s parents and his mom and I did a trip to Joanne’s and Michael’s looking for wedding favor bags. I’m stocking up on Swiss chocolate on my trips (I go to Switzerland again in a week), and we found some 3×4 Navy blue organza favor bags that I think will work great.

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At Michael’s the bags were $3.99 for 12 (or $0.33 / bag). After a quick search of the internet, Idea Ribbon is having a sale and if I buy 300 I can get them for $0.08 / bag. Luckily, I need 300!

Speaking of numbers… the RSVP deadline was Wednesday the 1st. As of right now we have 226 yes’s, very few no’s and we are waiting on responses from 70 people. It looks like we will surpass my 250 people estimate!!

Happy 4th of July!!

Mary

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